Beldaran wrote:So Baylor requires all students to spend 2 semesters in what they call "Chapel". It is a one hour long, twice a week, very stupid church service. I find it offensive and ridiculous that I am required to experience the propaganda of the local mystics, so I protest by blatantly playing my gameboy during the whole "service".So today this fat idiotic lady comes up to me during church and says, "Would you please put that away?" I smile and inform her, "No." And I go back to playing Final Fantasy IV Advance. She then says, "Excuse me..." to which I do not respond because I find her irritating. She tries to get my attention several more times, before I find that she is making my game less enjoyable, so I turn around and say, "Is this against the rules? Will I be forced to not only be here, but to pay attention as well?"
Her: "On the first day of chapel, they explained that you must pay attention."
Me: "Oh, well I had my ear plugs in on the first day, and I was taking a nap so I didn't hear that." [I go back to playing Final Fantasy. She is starting to get angry.]
Her: "What's your name?"
Me: "I am not required to tell you my name."
Her: [getting more angry] "Do you want me to call campus police?"
Me: "Do you want to call campus police and tell them that someone is playing gameboy in church? I might go with you because that would be funny."
Her: "We can take that away from you, you know."
Me: "I suppose if a couple of your staff held me down and stole it you could, but legally you cannot. You are not a police officer, and I am not breaking a law. This is not a class and you are not a teacher. It is a religious event that I am forced to be at."
Her: "Tell me your name."
I say nothing. I go back to playing gameboy. She storms off. I can see that she is waiting by the entrance to get me after the service so I can't scan my student ID and be marked present, so I wait until it is really crowded and chaotic and I leave through another door.
She figured I would be one of those 18 year old freshman, all scared and intimidated by either her weight or her authority (or both), but really I am a 25 year old computer programmer who is too old and too experienced to be intimidated by someone with more bark than bite. I can smell a lack of authority from a mile away, so she can kiss my heathen, godless butt.
Beldaran wrote:For those who can't imagine why I'd go to Baylor, here are my reasons:I would have had to wait an extra year before going to a state school in Texas because I needed residency. Out of state transfers, at the time, had almost no hope of getting into University of Texas. I could have gone to Texas State or or something, but why would I do that when I can go to such a nice university here at Baylor?
I'm getting an amazing education. I am on a first name basis with several of my engineering professors. Classes are small and intense. I will be lined up with an amazing job at graduation.
I have a kick ass scholarship. Even though Baylor is insanely expensive, it's actually cheaper for me to go here because of my scholarships and grants.
I don't particularly care that it's a religious school. However, I find chapel really offensive. It's not a class. It's a religious service. Nothing is learned. I just sit there and watch people sing and worship and talk about Jesus. It's pathetic. And now they want to force me to pay attention, not just be there. Well fuck that. If I can't play gameboy without being hassled, I'm going to just put my ear plugs in, bring a pillow, and go to sleep.
Y'know, if we just cut out all the chatter about your views on religion, how several people think you're wrong to believe as you do and everyone is pretty much just insulting everyone else, these two bits are basically the whole thread.
Comments about this that I'd like to make:
You have your reasons for going to Baylor. I always thought you did - as far as I'm aware, everyone here has done what they wanted to, be it education, work, whatever. Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong, guys.
You're not a religious person. This was made very clear in that thread I started in which I was unsure in what I believed.* A fair number of us don't want to start that again, including me, mostly because reading all the responses made my head hurt.
[Strike]You were following the rules.[/Strike] As far as we're aware, all you legally have to do is attend 'chapel'. You don't have to join in with anything, do you? You could, theoretically, just sit there and do nothing? [Strike]If so, then there's very little wrong with what you were doing. Again, that's from what you've told us, but why would you lie about that?[/Strike] Re-reading your first post, it may well be that doing what you were doing is in fact against the rules. However, unless you're told so by a senior member of staff, I think you're safe.
You stood your ground. She challenged you, you challenged her back. Huzzah for you. If it turns out she had no actual power, then I'd say you did good. If she did have power and was in the right, I'm sure you'll apologize, right? Y'know, before arguing your case, 'cause that seems like something you'd do.
So, yeah. If you get done for playing your GBA (I guess it's either a GBA or a DS, and since you didn't actually say DS...), then take a book. If you get done for that, take an MP3 player. If you get done for that... etc. Stand for your rights! Or something.
* I'm still not really, but I kinda had to abandon that because it moved over from 'let's help Darth' to 'let's challenge Beldaran on his lack of faith'. I'm not bitter or anything, and I know that's the way things happen on forums, but still...