It is kind of a crazy deal. Long story short, she just wanted independence. Girls want that at that age. She wanted to move into her own apartment. I assumed that would end in a divorce either way, so I told her to just make a decision. (She had already been talking divorce for a couple months.)

Strangest thing I have ever been through. Four and a half years, gone, just like that. I guess she seriously just stopped loving me.

It hurts...real bad, obviously. But I got a good support cast of friends and family that are holding me up.

In the meantime, I am going to be looking for the next girl that wants to be with a guy who has a great job, is about to purchase a home, drives a convertible and will treat her like a freaking Goddess...

Prrkitty 19 Jun 2008, 20:01

I've been thru one (1986). You can survive it and move on. The old cliche "Time heals all wounds" ... says it all.

You know how to find me if you wish to talk about it. 😊

Master Ghaleon 19 Jun 2008, 22:12

Sorry to hear that man 😞

Icey 19 Jun 2008, 23:13

Sucks man. Sorry to hear it. It's pretty shitty but I know you'll pull through.

russ, I don't think he was "taking it way too lightly", more like it's a serious situation and he was posting the way he did because it's easier to bring it up that way.

moocow 19 Jun 2008, 23:14

ctrl-alt-delete wrote:Now I can get with my one true love, Chandra.

YES.

So sorry, honey 😞

erm2003 20 Jun 2008, 00:18

Sorry to hear the news. Keep your head up and it will eventually get easier - hopefully quickly.

phattonez 20 Jun 2008, 00:54

I don't know if she stopped loving you, maybe more that she doesn't know what love is. Well just don't try to blame yourself because it doesn't sound like it's your fault, but don't thrust a lot of hate on her; it's not healthy. Hopefully you can get through it; just remember the old cliches and take care of yourself.

Aegix Drakan 20 Jun 2008, 01:45

ach....that sucks man...

I have a friend who recently had to go throuhg his parents getting divorced. It hurt him a lot too at first, but time will patch up the wounds.

😊 I hope things get better for you.

SUCCESSOR 20 Jun 2008, 08:57

Dude, you are so fucking awesome! That dumb bitch, Phhhsh! please! She didn't deserve you. She'll come runnin' back to all, "please I'm just a common ho' wit out you!" and you be all, "Get off me ho'!" and you'll go home and fuck a model every night and get crunk and shit! you know?

you be alright man! You know? You the shit!

So....

Wanna fuck?

moocow 20 Jun 2008, 11:25

SUCCESSOR wrote:Dude, you are so fucking awesome! That dumb bitch, Phhhsh! please! She didn't deserve you. She'll come runnin' back to all, "please I'm just a common ho' wit out you!" and you be all, "Get off me ho'!" and you'll go home and fuck a model every night and get crunk and shit! you know?
you be alright man! You know? You the shit!
So....
Wanna fuck?

*blinks*

Wow.

ctrl-alt-delete 20 Jun 2008, 15:13

moocow wrote:*blinks*
Wow.

What scares me more than anything is the fact that he probably was not kidding. 😞

No thanks. I'll stick with Chandra and the models(which could totally be classified in the same category).

Prrkitty 20 Jun 2008, 18:47

ctrl-alt-delete wrote:I'll stick with Chandra and the models(which could totally be classified in the same category).

Quoted for truth... she IS hawt!! 😊

FirstWizZedd45 20 Jun 2008, 21:28

All I have to say is that Wednesday night playing pool was golden! One of the best nights we have had in so long. Just think of all the shit we can get into now with all this new-found freedom! You know I love you man, now go fuck someone else!

Beldaran 20 Jun 2008, 21:41

Don't think of this as the end of your marriage, but as the beginning of your sex life.

Modus Ponens 20 Jun 2008, 21:58

Sorry if this is a total bonehead question, but who's Chandra?

biggiy05 20 Jun 2008, 22:57