Woah, thanks for the advice guys. We're definitely keeping the baby. I definitely agree with the beat them advice. Not for the sake of being an asshole parent, but to prepare them for the real world. I also plan on spending a lot more time doing things that they end up liking, unlike how my father was. I feel that family bond is much more important. Reading is VERY important. In fact, I'm probably going to read to them in multiple languages to really stimulate them.

My biggest concern is money. My wife is going through student teaching for this fall semester, and basically can't get a job while being pregnant and student teaching. She's due in feb, so she'll be done by the time our baby is due. But money for stuff....hmmm....