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Raichu86
05-24-2002, 11:10 AM
My grandpa passed away today. He was 82. He was having heart problems and was gonna get surgery for it, which was supposed to happen today, but he got in worse condition and the surgery would have killed him. :( He passed away after turning down the surgery.

Now my grandparents on mother's side of the family are all gone. :(

BBP2X
05-24-2002, 11:12 AM
:(
I suppose it wouldn't make much of a difference if he would of have had the surgery or not, 80% is still a large chance

Smokin' D. Grass
05-24-2002, 12:16 PM
Im so sorry for what you are going through. I know it sounds corny, but he is in a better place. remember that. BTW how are doing through this?:smoking:

obi
05-24-2002, 12:21 PM
I fell sorry for you man, and you Mom.

Both Parents gone, gee, that sucks.

Raichu86
05-24-2002, 12:21 PM
Originally posted by Smokin' D. Grass
BTW how are doing through this?:smoking:

I'm doing fine. I'm not a cry baby, so it doesn't hurt me much, but it's still sad. :(

mike5000
05-24-2002, 01:00 PM
Im sorry to hear that... you okay?

Cyclone
05-24-2002, 01:15 PM
I know what it's like to lose someone; my grandfather died when I was 13. I myself didn't feel much emotion; all I can say is wait until the funeral, because that is when it will hit you. That's the way it was for me; I was just peachy-fine for the entire time, then they started playing the music at the funeral, and for some inane reason, I just broke right down.

Funny thing is that after the funeral, you wouldn't have known I had been upset.

Cyclone

Raichu86
05-24-2002, 01:26 PM
Originally posted by Cyclone
I myself didn't feel much emotion; all I can say is wait until the funeral, because that is when it will hit you.

Yes indeed. My grandmother passed away years ago, I can't remember how long it was. I was fine, just a little sad, until the funeral. When I walked out I started crying, just like everybody else. :cry:

Seigeless
05-24-2002, 01:28 PM
I'm sorry to hear this, but essentially, its part of life, and we all go through these things. I hope you feel better soon!

Glitch
05-24-2002, 01:37 PM
I know how ya feel man...I lost my Great Grandma last year....it tore me up.

Jigglysaint
05-24-2002, 01:57 PM
We all go through somthing like this. I lost 3 or my grandparents over the course of a few months. First my grandmother, then my other grandmother, and finally, the remaining grandfather. I didn't cry much at all either. While I am sad that they left, I know that they are in a good place.

I've been also been having dreams about my grandmother, so her memory hasn't completely left. I hope that I can help her soul out when I finally get the chance.

Menokh
05-24-2002, 03:04 PM
That sucks. I feel sorry for you. I lost 3 of my grandparents in the past.
My last remaining grandpa is dying of all sorts of things; his colon is worn out, and he has stage 2 dementia. He has lost 10 days in the past week.

I know what it's like.

Nick
05-24-2002, 05:03 PM
I lost one of my grandfather's last year. I was slightly sad until the funeral, where I broke down.

I lost my grandmother when I was really young, so I don't remember her very well. I know she was nice because I have some memories of her.

My grandmother and grandfather on my dad's side are left. Of course, my grandfather was diagnosed(sp?) with cancer a few months ago. :(

Dracula
05-24-2002, 05:05 PM
I know EXACTLY how you feel, Raichu. I've had too many family deaths (my dad's death being the worst), so just remember, there's someone here that can share the same kind of greif. Just hang in there, dude... :(

Link 101
05-24-2002, 05:11 PM
I feel your symphathy. I hope you can get through this. When my parents got dicorced I could barley handle it.

mrz84
05-24-2002, 08:15 PM
i lost my grandmother on my father's side about 2 1/2 years ago. she was in her late 60s. i miss her but i know that i cant let it bother me forever. death is a cruel mistress and comes in many forms. when and how she comes for us we never know. i can only say that i feel your pain.

SSJ3500
05-24-2002, 10:05 PM
Thats sucks, My granpa passed away 2 or 3 years ago, I didn't take it that badly but its still not a good thing really.

Pornlord
05-24-2002, 11:07 PM
I am sorry. I just want to tell you a story:

Stuart and his Dad went to a movie theater to see some movie. His dad had heart promblems...they weren't very serious and Stuart's dad took medication. While watching the movie Stuart's dad started to feel kinda sick. "Stuart I'm going to the car to get some medicine. I'll be bask in 5"
He walked out. The movie ended and 'Dad' hadn't come back yet. Stuart (11 yrs. old) found him in the car dead.

This is a depressing post\topic

Pornlord

Cyclone
05-25-2002, 01:39 AM
Oh Gawd...now THAT is depressing.

As for me, I found out today that my grandmother is back in the hostipal. So continues the days of our lives...

Cyclone